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Betrayal is the worst characteristics ever embedded in the Human DNA due to “Judas Iscariot & Lucifer.”
Betrayal (or backstabbing) is the breaking or violation of a trust, or confidence that produces moral and psychological conflict within a relationship amongst individuals.
Today, I wanted to discuss this topic because I have been a victim of betrayal not only once or twice but a few times, either by a friend, family member or the marriage I am leaving behind. It’s devastating and hurtful when the people who are close to us, now turns around and become our worst enemy by betraying us. It makes me sick to my stomach when people do this. It not only affects you the person going through this in a negative way but the person who does this have destroyed and tear down the fabric of trust you had in them.
This is a topic that hits home for me because I can now speak from experience—unfortunately, but the good thing is I can help others live a better and more productive life by offering my thoughts on “Betrayal.” I feel very passionate about this topic so I might do a follow up to this article.
“An Act of Betrayal is not an act of Love. It is a cold, calculating and malignant act filled with pure hatred.”
There is no justification for Betrayal. None. No matter how angry, or hurt you feel about a situation or a person in your life—it gives you no right to betray anyone especially anyone who is close to you or someone like a partner in a relationship or someone in your own family, example your brother, sister, aunt, uncle, cousin, mother or father.
“Betrayal is a form of Sin that God does not uphold or accept.”
God does not uphold this form of sin, because Judas Iscariot used this same act to kill his Son Jesus and by killing Jesus it changed the very fabric of our society from good to bad.When you betray someone by any means you in essence have repeated the very sin that “Judas Iscariot” committed thousand of years ago. A sin that destroyed Jesus’ life at a young age. “Who planted the sin in the first place in Judas?” Lucifer himself. It is Heartless, cruel, inconsiderate, a form of desperation, a cruel and malignant intent to betray another man. Especially when it is someone close to you.
To me the worst form of betrayal is that of members of our own family. Yes, betrayal from a spouse is bad or a friend BUT betrayal from your own flesh and blood and family member is the worst kind one could commit. Behind them you will surely find “Lucifer.”
Betrayal Comes in many forms some are:
1.Infidelity of one partner unto another.
2.Stealing from your own family.
3.Selling your own children to child labour—that is a huge crime
4.Breaking up a friends relationship.
5.Trying to have a relationship with your girlfriends boyfriend or
vice versa—that’s bad.
6.Trying to have a relationship with your brothers girlfriend or wife or your sisters boyfriend or husband or your sister-in-laws husband or brother-in-laws wife (This should be a crime unto itself and yes, in my opinion should include jail time. Why? It is grossly wrong to want to do that. just wrong.) It is shameful and downright cruel to want to do that. It is lowly and despicable, and anyone who does this has, “No Values, No Integrity, and Lacks character as a Man or Woman.”
7.Trying to have a relationship with the child you gave birth to or fathered, also known as incest. (Let me just go on record by saying Jail time is not enough for this kind of act, it’s despicable for anyone who wants to do this to their own child.)
8.Betraying someone out of greed.
9.Betraying someone because of Money.(Greed over money could cause a Man to betray his own friends or members of his own family and in some cases kill the person or sell his own soul to Lucifer just to obtain money.)
10.Betraying someone out of extreme Jealousy.
Who embodies all these negative characteristics “Lucifer” Yes, unfortunately all the bad things have “Lucifer’s Trademark and Stamp on it.” If you are trying to go into a relationship with your brothers girlfriend or sisters boyfriend etc. Your just simple a “Despicable human being.” There is nothing nice or appetizing about wanting to do that.
1. It means that the person has no values, their value system has been shattered and they have become tainted, corrupted.
2. They have no shame—Lucifer have no shame. Lucifer will influence people in bad ways and cause them to create dysfunction in families. Example, cousin with cousin, sister wanting sister’s boyfriend, brother wanting his brothers girlfriend or wife. Instead of wanting to look for their own life partner here comes Lucifer or I like to say “Lucifer’s helper, his assistant in crime.” Wanting to create disharmony in your life and those around you.
Some people will try to “Justify,” their sick behaviour by saying things like, “well you didn’t want to be in the relationship with the person, so I want to be with the person whether we are talking about a male or female. Or, they will say, “the relationship is over the person is free now, so I want to be with them, because you messed up so I want to be with that person now, I will take your place, I will become your stand in—your replacement, I don’t see anything wrong with that.”
My comment to anyone who wants to do this is:
“Put a brake on it—put a sock in it, get a life and have some respect for yourself and the person you want to do this to.”
There is no justification for wanting to go that route—and guess what it will never, ever work. Sometimes too you will come across people who find that if the person they wanted to be with was inlove with their friend at first and something happen to the relationship they now want to “Date the person.” That too is a form of betrayal and is down right, “Wrong, Wrong,Wrong.”
If the people involved already established an “Emotional Connection,” and something happen to affect the relationship you shouldn’t be anywhere near those two people. Why? It’s unethical and it’s frankly none of your business. They have already established an emotional connection and if they had an issue that affected the relationship then they need to work out their issue with each other. The issue is between the two people involved who already had a prior connection—Not You. You are just a third party trying to interfere with their lives, it is wrong to do that, grossly wrong. Where did you come from and who gives you the authority to destroy peoples lives and cause major unhappiness?
It is one of the worst forms of “Betrayal.” No relationship established on the basis or foundation of a betrayal that damaging or so strong and hurtful can ever survive. So, don’t even try or attempt to try this and think that you will lead a happy and successful life. Where is this person’s Integrity, under their feet?
The woman you want to be with or the man you want to be with has a woman, if you are trying to betray someone, both of you will have no love to grow the relationship on, no respect and most importantly—No honor, No honor.” There is no Integrity in betrayal.
“Any relationship built on the foundation of any form of betrayal will never survive and will not receive God’s blessing, hence it will suffer ill-health and have a sudden death.”
Only relationships built on “True love, true harmony, a strong emotional bond and spiritual connection and have the blessings of God and your family will be the only relationship that will strive and grow and blossom and become fruitful and successful. Any man who dispute this belief is definately not a “Man of God.” If your not a “Person of God,” then you are a follower of “Lucifer.” Plain and simple, because if you don’t believe in Love then you believe in Hate. It’s either you do agree or you don’t and if you don’t you are a follower of “Lucifer.”
When people betray you it becomes a “Vendetta.” It is just pure hate, extreme jealousy and lack of respect to you as a person. It is a brutal assault even though no weapon is used. This is exactly what Judas Iscariot did to Jesus he betrayed him with just a kiss and 30 pieces of silver. Judas Iscariot had a “Weak Spirit” and that is why Lucifer could influence him to betray his closest friend. Judas also had a weakness for money. So, with a “Weak Spirit and his greed for money, Lucifer used this to betray and Kill Jesus.” How cruel is that? No weapon was used by Judas, think about it— no weapon. Except for that kiss. That act of betrayal caused Jesus to be crucified. So yes, an act of betrayal in itself is, “An indirect form of weapon.”
That is why we can call all betrayal “The sting of the serpents tail.” The serpent is Lucifer himself who persuaded and convinced Judas to betray Jesus. This act of betrayal have gone down in history as one the most powerful and hateful betrayal ever by a human being to another man. Due to Judas’s act many people now as a society carry this in their DNA. Not everyone carry this negative trait but those who carry it will use it and they will always use the act to betray without any feeling as to who they are hurting.
Genesis 12:3 God said, “I will bless those who bless you, and him who dishonors you I will curse, and in you all the families of the earth shall be blessed.”
In today’s world there are different forms of betrayal but the easiest betrayal is for someone to use what I called “Persuasive Speech to betray another person.” This act is similar to the “Kiss of Betrayal” that Judas Iscariot used on Jesus. They pretend to be the Lamb but instead they are what my Grandmother would call “A Wolf in Sheep’s clothing.”
“A wolf in Sheep’s clothing” is someone who will betray you in a heartbeat without any remorse and then turn around and pretend to others that they are more compassionate, kinder and caring person than the person they have betrayed. Yep, my Grandmother taught me many things about life, God bless her. Hence the name, Wolf in Sheep’s clothing.” How can you be a more loving person if you betray another human being especially someone close to you or your own flesh and blood? You can’t be. Anyone who betrays another human being have no love for the person they betrayed or anyone for that matter.
A man can talk whatever he wants to talk to win approval from people around him, whether friends, family or associates.
“With all due respect, the minute you betray another man you in essence bury your character.” People now see you as a “Barracuda”— not a Saint.”
When you betray someone you are trying to oust them, remove them, hurt them in the worst way possible, in some cases kill them, get rid of them or in many cases you betray them because “you want to take their place or obtain something that they have that you want.” People betray also, because of money, greed, because of relationships—either they want to get the person to be in a relationship with them for the wrong reasons or they want to break up a relationship or they betray out of pure hate and lack of respect for the person.
Listen, the minute you betray another person whether it’s your own partner in a relationship, a friend, a brother, a sister, a cousin, a aunt, a uncle, your mother, your father you become “Zero, Zero, Zero.” You become nothing—Naught. All that you have worked for and achieved or accomplished becomes nothing. It becomes obsolete. My Grandfather always talk about this, always. He never respected when anyone betrayed him or tried to betray him. He always say, the minute you betray another man your worth your value as a person become lost and tainted. Their reputation is now ruin and God will not forget what they did they will be made accountable by God. There is no way anyone can tell me that, when someone betray another person that you as an intelligent human being, someone who says they believe in God and have faith in God that when a man betrays another human being that they are someone of “Good Repute.” They are not.
If you are an intelligent person and believe in doing what is “Right, Just, Ethical and Fair,” in society. You can’t tell me that you believe that when someone commits an act of betrayal that you are still a loving, compassionate, and caring person. No Court of Justice in this country or even around the world would agree that an act of “Betrayal is an act of Love.” None. An act of betrayal is a crime in itself, unfortunately it can be used as evidence in court but it cannot be used to convict a man and send him to prison, and I believe the Legal Justice System should change this.
You can’t in one breath say just because you work in a professional field where your job is to help others and in the other breath you turn around and curse people, be mean, hateful arrogant, disrespectful, emotionally abusive, show lack of respect for authority, have no compassion, create emotional pain and suffering and prevent people who are close to you from been happy—Then say you care about people! You don’t. People who do this are “False—a hypocrite.” On one side they try to prove to people that their Job makes them caring people but their mean behaviour says otherwise.
Listen my Grandmother and Grandfather always say, your job doesn’t define who you are, your money doesn’t define who you are—if you went to a prestigious university or received ivy league education it’s "Your Character that ultimately Defines You.”
You can’t in life as a human being and a child of God because God created you. Act in one way then on the other side become a “Mean Monster—A Barracuda, a Judas Iscariot.” Then say to everyone around you, “Oh, I care about people and I love people, I help people everyday with the job that I do.” No. There is no real love in anyone that spews hate or betrays another human being, and cause them unhappiness, pain or suffering. NONE.
A “Lawless Man or Lawless Person” will never believe in following God’s rules he will only believe in following “Lucifer rules.” A “Lawless Man” will set himself up in direct opposition to all authority both God’s authority and Human authority.
A “Lawless Man or person” will not uphold Traditional Family Values, he will not embrace anything that is, Just, Right, Fair or Ethical in the eyes of God and the Legal Justice System. He will always want to break all rules both Legal and Godly rules and will put up strong opposition against anything that is good that God stands for.
A “Lawless Man or Lawless person” will pretend they care about those who are in need, about the poor and the suffering and will misrepresent themselves as a great humanitarian. In other words, that they are for the people but they are not.
A “Lawless Man or Lawless Person” will vehemently oppose God, or anything that God stands for. The mere mention of God or Jesus they will despise. When it is time to pray they will not like the idea of it. They will oppose all that Jesus stands for and rejects all the Goodness that both God and Jesus upholds.
The “Lawless Man or Person” will oppose all Law including the Laws of the Legal Justice System and the “Law of God” and want to be a Law unto himself.
A “Lawless Man or Person” will betray you in a heartbeat sell their soul to Lucifer, betray their own brother, sister, mother or father, or partner and then turn around and call their act of betrayal, “Love.” They will look like a Lamb, talk like a Lamb and try to persuade people around them that they are caring and loving but you will know them because underneath they will be like a “Wolf in Sheep’s clothing.” While on the other hand you will see their hatred come to light.
A “Lawless Man or Person” will reject their own family and friends in an heartbeat if they feel their family or friends are standing in their way of them getting what they want. Even if what they want will cause everyone a great deal of pain or embarrassment they don’t care.
A “Lawless Man or Person” is also considered someone who is an Apostate. An Apostate is defined as a person who experienced a dramatic change in conviction but “a man who, even in his new state of belief, is spiritually living not primarily in the content of that faith. In other words, the person goes through complete abandonment, renunciation, desertion and departure of their religion. If they are Christian then they abandon their “Conviction, Trust and Faith in God and Jesus and all the rules that God and Jesus have set in place for us to live by.”
Revelation (V14) “If we learn to recognise deception now, we will not be deceived so easily when it grows to its ultimate. If we blindly follow signs and wonders we will fall an easy prey to the deceiver.” In other words, not because someone walk like a duck, quack like duck, that doesn’t mean it’s a duck. Learn to pay attention to the people who say one thing and then do the opposite. If they have no loyalty then that is your sign. Learn to see the truth of a person no matter how ugly it looks or no matter if what you see in them hurts you. Don’t turn a blind eye to their lies and deception.
When people don’t want to be obedient to the “law of God or they move away from God and faith,” they will turn a blind eye or turn their back on the truth. Those who do not receive God’s word and do not accept God and Jesus as good and great are then deceived by the words of a “Lawless Man or Lawless Person.” In other words, If you turn your back on God and Jesus you will always get deceived by an “Impostor.”
Sometimes the truth will hurt us; sometimes it will delight us. Ultimately it will always set us free. So, if you have anyone around you who keeps saying that they care about people’s pain and suffering even if they are in a profession where they help people with pain and suffering, that doesn’t mean that they are kindhearted or more loving than you. Don’t let them fool you, they are far, very far from been loving. I know people right now who work in the caring profession field, in other words their job is to assist those in need whether they are a Doctor, Police Officer, Lawyer, Nurse or Therapist etc, etc. and when they are away from work they become mean, arrogant and downright cruel to those around them. Listen I repeat, “Your profession doesn’t define who you are, Your character does.”
If anyone reading my blog post today believe that betrayal is the way to go and you don’t care about God’s blessing and purpose then you definately have lost all your “Values and Self-Respect.”
Not only for yourself but for mankind, your descendants and your future children. It also says, you do not stand for anything, “Right, Just, Fair or Ethical,” and that you are not a “Man or person of God or Faith.” Your a “Wolf in sheep’s clothing pretending to believe in God, Faith and Traditional family values but you don’t.”
A man of God or a person of God and Faith, follows “God’s Rules,” for the betterment of society while a man without faith, who lacks respect for God and his values believe in creating pain, suffering and ill-health among people.
Rules that you should stand by:
1. Do not reward people who betray members of their own family do not reward a partner when they betray you, do not reward anyone for any form of betrayal. There is no honor in betrayal none.
2.When you reward people who betray others you are in essence handing down a “Legacy of Betrayal,” the “Stigma of Betrayal” that will become the families Legacy for years to come. The Stigma of Betrayal will be the same stigma like what Judas Iscariot left for us many years ago. The only way to stop this legacy of betrayal from following you, is to not “Reward the Betrayer.”
In my opinion, people who betray others should in fact serve time. There should be a mandatory punishment by law for the act of betrayal. Anytime someone betrays someone and stand in peoples way indirectly or otherwise and cause major opposition to their happiness along with being betrayed—yes, it should be punishable by law. Why? It is a cruel and malignant act that causes pain, suffering, unhappiness and in many cases financial loss.
Betrayal is not a joke people it is not a joke. Betrayal is just lowly and rotten. There is nothing attractive about you as a person when you commit this act. I have no respect for people who do this. None.
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Stormie Omartian Prayer of the Day
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When You Need Hope and Joy in Your Heart
Lord, I thank You that You have bought me with a price and I have an eternal future with You. Even though I may experience times of sorrow, when I sing praise to You, Your joy and peace fill my heart. Pour out an increased portion of Your joy and gladness in me today so that it will overflow onto others I meet. Help me to sing Your praise, even if it has to be only silently in my heart at that moment. Thank You that my hope is in You and Your joy in me is everlasting.
The ransomed of the Lord shall return, and come to Zion with singing, with everlasting joy on their heads. They shall obtain joy and gladness, and sorrow and sighing shall flee away.
Isaiah 35:10
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Praying is something I do all the time, I can honestly say this is embedded in my DNA by God since I was a very young child. If things are not going right in your life, I suggest you reach out to God. Not man or Lucifer—God himself and Jesus and ask them to help free your path to a better life. Enjoy the prayers I offer, God bless.
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I love this song by Keyshia. This song is for you “Bright Eyes,” where ever you are today, know that you are much loved and that I miss you dearly…You are always in my heart…Enjoy the song.
