Picture courtesy of “Coastal Living Mag” Yep! when I saw this picture, “I said darn right, I need a vacation you better believe it!” Oh, my, gosh!
Prior to posting my article for this week, I was cleaning 2hrs before in final preparation to my home been listed. Now, I can say it is ready and by the end of next week it will be on the MLS. The minute I decided to start my new life and leave a bad marriage behind, I have had so many delays, setbacks, opposition to me starting this new chapter of my life it’s unbelievable! One thing for sure I am a very determined person and I will go on with new life with my two kids. Yes, it feels a bit daunting sometimes but I know I am doing the right thing. I have been painting, packing and cleaning since forever, the carpet in the entire house have been cleaned and the hardest part is getting my kids to keep it clean while it’s on the market. I told my daughter and my son if they make any mess, I will put them to hard labour and pay them 50 cents for a week, oh, my, gosh! My daughter said, “Mom that’s terrible!” I couldn’t stop laughing.
My favourite line for them though to keep them from making any mess I tell them, “No Computer.” Then everybody is on best behaviour. Oh, my, gosh! Kids can’t do without the computer it’s as if your taking away their life source. Too funny. It takes alot of work to get a home prepared for sale, alot of work. I will also be competing with two other homes in my neighbourhood because they are priced in the $240,000 price range, however my home will be lowest priced of the two for now, in the Port of Newcastle area, because it’s a smaller home. However, I do have a bit of advantage over the other two homes and that is I have a finished basement and a fully fenced yard, that may help– who knows, it will depend on the buyers preferences. I don’t know when the home will get sold but it is suitable for a small family or a empty nester. I need some rest, and yes, I need a vacation, my, gosh!
Learning to Keep an Open Mind
Learning to keep an open mind could save us alot of heartache pain and unhappiness in our lives. My Grandmother whom I refer to as my “Angel on Earth” had an open mind and because of that she saved my life when I was 10 years old. Keeping an open mind could bring you lots of happiness and keep you safe, but it’s up to you.
Today I will be talking about a topic that most people find uncomfortable or so it seems. So, sit back, get your favourite drink and get ready to get uncomfortable, Amen to that! It’s amazing the minute you start to talk about the goodness of God we get major resistance, and opposition but the minute we start to talk about pornography, war, gay rights or no rights or anything that God does not stand for we don’t get much resistance. Everyone loves “Lady Gaga” Oh, yeah baby! However, if I were to go up against a bunch of teenagers and tell them that Lady Gaga songs are inappropriate for them and bad for them they would probably stone me, yep! You get what I am saying? People nowadays don’t like to discuss God, when in fact God represents everything that is good or should be good in our lives today. I know what I am saying is the truth, “you go try and tell anyone that Lady Gaga is not a good influence in their lives and see what happen? Good luck, I hope you come out of it in one piece, oh, my, gosh!
Lets take Hugh Heffner founder of the “Playboy Magazine” and the “Playboy Mansion” now 85 yrs.old. This man used so many young women aged 18 up thousands of them over the years to build his empire. What he does is wrong, just grossly wrong, yet he will always try to justify what he does. He always say things like these girls make thousand of dollars every week and put themselves through college. “If it weren’t for me they would never have had a better life.” “What a pot a crock!” This guy manipulates young women into believing that without him they would not survive, so sick. He donates millions of dollars to charity every year, all designed to buy public support, government support so they don’t destroy his lifestyle. That right there is one of “Lucifer’s Trademark” In April of last year Hugh Hefner paid 12.5 million to save the Hollywood sign in Los Angeles, California, now more people love him and will buy his magazines. No doubt another way to buy public support, full of manipulation this man, he makes me sick. You are not an asset to society if your not making it be a better place, period.
Now if I talk about the “Goodness of God about love and light” and that Lucifer is creating problems in our lives. Wanna bet people will call me crazy. They will say, “lady you crazy, you don’t know what you are talking about.” I don’t want to talk to you. Oh, no they won’t call Hugh Hefner crazy and have him put away. A man who put garbage out in society is good– a man who destroys young women lives they embrace. See the difference?
*In my entire article I will be using the name Lucifer if you don’t know who that is “Google it.”
I can’t force people to believe what I tell them on my blog when I share my ideas and thoughts, but I know in my heart and soul that what I say is truthful and if I can save one person, yes, just one person then I would have done a good job. That one person will go on and tell another person and so on. No, I can’t save everyone but I can save one or a few. That’s what God would want me to do.
Why am I the way I am?
Okay, so why am I so spiritual and why did I create this Self-Help Blog, or why am I the way I am? Well, it goes way back when I was a little girl about 9-10 yrs old. God appeared to me one night in my dream. This is something I am sharing for the first time on my blog. My Grandmother, my mother and my two children know about this and today I share this with my blog readers. It’s not something I share with others because in today’s world people are very skeptical and will sometimes think you are making up stories. I don’t make up stories, If I don’t have anything to say I don’t speak.
Now, you don’t have to believe me, but there is a God and he’s Magnificent, loving, caring God, and he radiates so much light and love it’s amazing. I have never felt so much love, peace, calm and light ever before in my life. I never forgot the dream. Now, at 9 yrs.old after seeing God. I woke up the next morning and told my Grandmother. I said, “Grandma” I saw God. She asked, “what did he say?” I said he didn’t say anything he was just looking down from the mountain at me for a long time but he wants me to do something important but he didn’t tell me what. My Grandmother then replied, “Well, as you get older God will let you know what he wants you to do.”
When I reached my teenage years I had this overwhelming desire to become a Nun. Okay, I know, I am smiling with myself, actually, I am laughing— “me a nun?” yeah right, oh, my, gosh! I would probably be one of those “Radical Nuns” that would get expelled, I would play hip, hop music, Country Music and Reggae, I would be like give some 50 cent music and and some Sean Paul—Oh, my I can’t stop laughing. I am far from been a Nun—Oh, my gosh! Okay, all jokes aside I did feel the urge to become a nun, I didn’t go ahead with it because I decided I wanted children. My decision wasn’t based on the fact that I was going to loose out on not having a relationship with a man, it just had to do with children. Actually, I wanted four children I have two now a boy and girl. Maybe in my new life sometime in the future I could have more, I would love to have more children.
Anyway, I didn’t pursue it further because I knew in my heart that God had a different plan for me. I still feel that he does have a plan for me, and I notice that I have been returning to my spirituality more now especially after ending a long-term marriage that was not good for me. I always say on my blog to my readers, that “God always have a plan for us and it’s true.” When God is working in our lives look for unusual things to happen that would not otherwise have happened. That is God right there working his miracles in your lives.
My Grandmother-“My Angel On Earth”
My Grandmother was someone whom I could trust dearly and who would always be there for me. She was also a very spiritual woman, very spiritual. When I was 10 years.old I was not been treated kindly and I told my Grandmother and she never once disbelieve me, she helped me to get out of a bad life situation. Most Grandparents would say has a child at 10 yrs.old your not telling the truth and would dismiss me, but not my Grandmother. She knew I would not lie to her. She was the most loving, kind, giving person I have ever known in my life. If it wasn’t for her I would not be here today, yes she literally saved my life. She was kind hearted and had a kind, gentle spirit, she never get very angry over anything, in other words she never argued much rarely, I always lived in a peaceful home with her.
If she were here today and I said, “Grandma I believe Lucifer is causing some trouble in my life, she would believe me and she would say, “lets pray, lets pray child.” She would never tell me I am crazy and I don’t know what I am talking about, she would believe me. I am crying right now, because she would always be there for me, no matter how young I was she would always believe me when I tell her something was wrong, and something doesn’t feel right. My recommendation to parents out there, is to not dismiss your children when they tell you anything no matter if it sounds stupid to you. Give them the benefit of the doubt. My Grandmother always had an “Open Mind” and I suggest as parents you should keep and open mind at all times, especially with your children. They maybe small but they are people too, you need to trust them.
Good Versus Bad
So, today my Topic is about “Good Versus Bad” Yes, there is Day and night, and Good and bad. There is God and there is who else? “Lucifer.” No, I don’t want to use the “S or D” word on my blog. If you don’t know who Lucifer is: “Google it.” Oh, my, gosh! Thank God for the internet, oh, my. Wanna bet Lucifer don’t like the internet because people get to speak the truth.
Okay, so the minute I decided to end my marriage it felt like I was up against a brick wall that I had to chip away at slowly. “How did I take the wall down?” Through daily prayer. and my strong belief that God was moving me into a better life.
Ever since I decided to move on to my new life there’s been long delays, numerous setbacks and things have been going slowly, very slowly almost at a snails pace in my life. When (Lucifer) we will call him that not the “S or the D” name. Yes, there is Good and bad in this world, there is God and Angels and then we have the opposite of that too. When Lucifer knows that we are going to have a better more fulfilling and happy life once we decide to leave bad relationships behind or move on to a new place etc. Look for him to produce countless setbacks in our lives hoping we will give up the fight because the problem feels like a mountain on our back. Lucifer wants us to stay in bad relationships and live unhappy lives, plain and simple that is what he wants. I want no part of that, none, period and you shouldn’t either.
If he can get us to feel so overwhelmed by the insurmountable problems we face we will give up and end up living unhappy lives and stay in relationships that are unhealthy or if we find our one true love he will try to set up opposition and roadblocks in our lives. Lucifer wants us to feel tired and overwhelm and to lose something precious, don’t let him do that to you. Fight back with Prayer, your faith and trust in God.
Lucifer needs help to cause major problems and unhappiness in our lives. He’s not human he can’t do it himself. “How does he do this?” He uses the people who are closest to us. Friends, family members, acquaintances. People you barely know will start to act in very “Unorthodox” ways. People who would normally be nice, kind hearted people now become your worst enemy. They become violent, angry, mean and will become liars and lie about everything you ask them. That right there is “Lucifer.” He uses people who are closest to you because they can do the most damage. Yes, it took me years to crack this little code and to figure this out but I have, and I want to tell my blog readers this.You can choose to believe me or not it’s up to you, you decide. I can’t save everyone, but if I can save one person from harm or one person from living an unhappy life I will work hard to do that, because that is what God would want me to do. Maybe writing my blog articles every week is part of God’s bigger plan who knows. Like I say, if I can help one person live a happier life then that’s great.
If you find your in a situation where all of a sudden someone seems to turn against you, or they betray you when, you know they would not otherwise have done so, or they are causing major opposition to your plans. It’s Lucifer using them to cause problems in your life. Now, you will find that when you confront the person about the fact that what they are doing is wrong, you will notice how much they deny any wrong doing and notice the opposition you get. They even become almost violent, wanting to run over you and everyone. That’s Lucifer.
There might have been days, weeks, months where you felt like giving up when your problems seem to drag on. Problems, like getting out of a bad relationship, leaving a bad life behind, or you have found your true love, your true soulmate. “Don’t give up.” That is Lucifer’s best strategy and game plan. He wants’ you to give up and then he wins. No, don’t give him the satisfaction.
In another week, my home will be listed for sale. “Do you know how long it took me to reach this point of my journey?” Well, over 1 year now. I won’t give up because I will go on to my new life, I have been legally separated for a year and it’s been a long, long, journey and I don’t want live in a house with someone that I don’t want in my life anymore. I know I am doing the right thing. The minute I started having setbacks I know for sure I was doing the right thing. Which is moving on with my new life, a life I know would be far happier than the one I am leaving behind.
Lucifer’s Ultimate Goal is to make you live an Unhappy Life and Lose great relationships.
Over 10 years ago, I remember a friend was telling me how she had a girlfriend who had met a guy and how the guy was causing alot of problems for her and her family. The guy wanted her to be in a relationship with him but she didn’t like him neither was she inlove with him. She had already met someone else who she had already fallen in love with, but this one guy wouldn’t give up pursuing her. For months he kept pushing and pushing. The guy would even have his mother call the girl to try and convince her that he wanted to be in a relationship with her. Her family was so frustrated because both families knew each other casually and so they tried not to offend the guy’s family. They wanted their daughter to go on with her life with the guy she fell inlove with but the other guy kept interfering in the relationship. He told lies on the girl’s boyfriend, he had other people call this girl. This situation went on for months.
The girl at one point cancelled wedding plans because she became doubtful after the guy that was forcing himself on her, planted all sorts of ideas in this poor girl’s head she started doubting her love for the other guy. Anyway, the mom was a very spiritual lady and she kinda get the feeling that something wasn’t right. The guy who was forcing himself on her daughter would sometimes get very angry with her on the phone, he would insult her and he would sometimes use threatening words. No matter how much they tell this man that their daughter was not inlove with him he wouldn’t stop. Her mom went and spoke to a another friend of hers who happen to be quite intuitive and spiritual and she said to her, “Your dealing with Lucifer.” She asked, “who?” Her friend called the “D” name. She said you need to pray, and pray some more. Her friend told her Lucifer doesn’t want your daughter to be happy he’s trying to break up a good relationship and he is using this other guy to cause problems for your daughter. The girl’s mom realize that she was telling the truth because no matter what they did this guy wouldn’t stop. He kept talking about how much he’s inlove with the girl and he has strong feelings for her, and he wants to marry her, when in fact he already knew she was inlove with someone else. The guy would go as far as cry on the phone to the girls mother talking about how inlove he is. That is Lucifer’s trademark again, he will use any tactic even to cry all the time and try to convince people he’s inlove or more inlove than anyone else, including the girls boyfriend.
It took the family over 1 year to get this guy off their daughter’s back. “How did they do this?” With daily prayer. They prayed for Lucifer to leave this mans body for him to leave their family alone. They did overcome Lucifer, but not without many months of delays and setbacks that nearly ruined her daughters future happiness.
Lucifer’s Ultimate goal is when he realizes two people have found their one true love in each other, their soulmate their perfect match he doesn’t want you to be happy. He wants you to end up like “Crisscross Apple Sauce” In other words, he wants you to end up with people who are bad for you and that you and them don’t match in terms of family values etc. This in turn cause you to have relationships with people who are not good for you. Lucifer will do anything to make our lives unhappy. Notice what I told you above about the guy pursuing this girl for over 1 year telling the family he’s inlove when he knows the girl his inlove with someone else, someone who wanted to get married to her. Well, the fact that the Guy pursued her so long is the trademark of Lucifer. He has no Shame and no respect for women. He doesn’t care about respect and family values. He will run over his family and the girls family just to destroy their lives.
Lucifer’s biggest trademark when it comes to relationships:
“I am inlove, I am inlove even when the woman is not inlove with him.” Look for the person to say this over and over again for months and months on end or even longer. I am inlove, I love her, I love her. Look for them to cause endless arguments and strife, conflict becomes endless, and they curse everybody. He will say things like–I won’t stop until I get her, I am not moving. I don’t care if she doesn’t love me I will make her love me. That is Lucifer right there. He will refuse to move. The woman is not inlove with the person he is using to do his job. Lucifer will make this person feel they are inlove and he doesn’t care, he has no shame and no respect for women.” Lucifer will always find a reason to justify his wrong doing.
Notice no matter how much the girl’s mother tell the guy my daughter is not inlove with you he doesn’t care, it’s as if he completely disregards what anyone is telling him. He become his own lawman, he follows his own rules, no one must tell him what to do. That is Lucifer’s trademark. Lucifer always think he’s more inlove than anyone else—When in fact all he is perpetuating is hate. His love is more real than the other man. The worst thing you could do is believe him. See what the other guy did? He pushed so hard the girl almost gave up and would have lost her true soulmate her true love. All because the guy kept forcing himself on her telling her he’s inlove when she clearly was not inlove with him. Lucifer wanted her to be with this other guy and on top that he wanted her to now “lie to God” and when she was ready to say her wedding vows he wanted her to lie and say, “Yes, I love you.” When in fact she didn’t love this man. Only Lucifer would want you to lie to God without disregard for what is right. “Do you get what I am saying?”
Questions to Ask Yourself
Have you felt like no matter what you say to this person or no matter what you do to get them to stop what they are doing this person won’t budge?
Do you feel like you want to give up especially if the problem have been going on for months or even a 1 year or longer than 1 year?
Do you feel like you are up against something larger than yourself because no matter what you say to this person they continue to cause major opposition for you? Even if friends or family talk to them they won’t stop behaving in an “Unorthodox Way.”
Do you notice that one minute you think their behaviour has changed and they promise you that they will stop they then turn around and lie to you and start the same behaviour again?
Do you notice they will say things like, “I am not moving, or if it is relationship problem they will say things like, “I am inlove, I don’t care, I am inlove, even when the woman is not inlove with them?” Lucifer will always think he is inlove, even when he is causing people alot of pain he will always justify his “Destructive behaviour.”
If you answer yes to most of these questions, you are dealing with something larger than yourself and that something is “Lucifer.” Why? It is not normal for someone to oppose you for months or even up to 1 year or longer? Do you get what I am saying? It is not normal. The only way to fix this is to Pray and ask Lucifer to leave your family alone and the people you care about.
Common Sense Tip
Notice how the Guy keep talking how he was inlove with the girl but he didn’t care about the families opinion no matter how much they tell him the girl was not inlove with him. He doesn’t have any love for anyone including the girl. He doesn’t love himself, he doesn’t love or respect the family and he doesn’t care about anyone.
So, how can he love this girl? Do you see what I mean? He’s fuel by Lucifer’s Trademarks, Anger, Jealousy, No genuine love, Pure hate, Lack of Respect for family values and freedom. Lucifer believes in control of others at all times. Hence, the guy forcing and demanding the family to let him be with this girl when she was not inlove with him. He wants to control the girl, the girl boyfriend, the family, the friends the neighbours anyone that stands in his way.
I will be very frank with everyone today because I am a very straight forward person. If you have a daughter and a man is forcing himself on her or you don’t have a daughter but you have a friend or someone you know and the man is forcing himself on this woman and telling people he’s inlove with her, when this woman is clearly not inlove with him. You need to stop it if it’s your daughter. “Put a Cork in it and Plug it.” If she is not your daughter but you know someone going through this then pass on the message. “You need to put a stop to it.” Don’t let your daughter be in a relationship with any man that she is not inlove with. If you care at all for your daughter don’t agree to do this. It will cause nothing but pain and suffering. It is common sense people. The man is sick in the head because Lucifer is causing him to do something he would otherwise not have done. If the woman is not inlove with the man the story is over. No need to keep dragging on and going on and trying to be nice to these people you have to be frank and direct with them and tell them to stop their “destructive behaviour.”
I have a daughter and when she reaches the age where she will be dating I won’t let her harbour anyone like that in her life ever. I have learnt too many things in life for me to make those kinds of mistakes. God is giving me a second chance in life for me to move on with my life from a bad marriage and start a new chapter, and believe when I say I will start this new chapter of my life right. No one will ever enter my life like that knowing that I don’t like or love them, or is forcing their way into my life, no one, that’s it. Story finish.
Relationship and Lucifer
“Have you ever notice that when you think you have found someone to be in a relationship with you and the person is “Wrong” for you– the relationship moves fast?”
But When the person you find is your perfect match, your true soulmate and you have a strong bond with them, notice how things slow down for you and you get major roadblocks to the relationship?” Yes, that is Lucifer himself trying to stop you from having a happy life. He knows you will have a happy life with the person you have met and he doesn’t want it to happen. Lucifer doesn’t care if the person is his match or not. If the woman is not compatible with the man, he doesn’t care—All the better because when two people are not compatible OR they are not inlove with each other, “what happens?” They become unhappy and their relationship and everything around them suffers and they lead unhappy lives. Remember Lucifer never ever wants to do what is “Right, Just and Fair.” No, No, No. Doing everything wrong is his “Mantra”. Lets make people unhappy, I don’t care if they get hurt or not, who cares, I must get what I want at whatever cost. I don’t care if you like me or not, I don’t care if you are my friend, my relative or neighbour. I don’t care who I hurt, I don’t care about “Traditional Values,” I don’t care if my family don’t like me, I don’t care if any woman loves me or not. I just want what I want.
Anyway, when the person is not right for you, the relationships takes off on a whirlwind romance faster than the speed of light, because that is not your true match. The minute you find your true match, your true love, Lucifer will cause you to make mistakes to try and ruin a good relationship. For example, “Have you ever made a really crucial mistake or said something or do something you would not otherwise have done?” Yep! Bing! Bing! Bing! Light bulb moment.
Only Lucifer would think that it is okay if someone makes a mistake that he now has the right to rule your life and profit off your mistake. Don’t let him profit off your mistake it is wrong. God would not do that to you. Instead God would want you to fix your mistake so you can have a happy life– not profit off your mistake. If this person was working on behalf of God they would say, “Let me help you fix your mistake because I want you to be happy.” “Do you get what I am saying to you?” “Do you see the difference in Lucifer behaviour and Gods behaviour?” One stands for Good the other stands for Bad.
Yep. That’s Lucifer all right, he made your spirit nervous so that you messed up and cause a huge mistake, a mistake you would not otherwise had made. Just so he can “Profit off your mistake.” He is hoping you will move on and give up. When you make mistakes that seem unusual or just out of the place you need to do one thing ask yourself this. “The day or time when things started to act funny around you or the day when you made your mistake who was with you at the time or who has been around you most of the time when you made your mistake?” The clue is with the person who is around you most of the time, it could be your own partner in a relationship, it could be friend, a family member, only you would know. This is how Lucifer works. He uses the people who are closest to us. People who would normally act in appropriate and decent ways, now start acting “Unorthodox” and doing crazy and unusual things, that they keep justifying. They seem to feel it is right to do what they do even when they are causing people alot of pain and unhappiness. They don’t know right from wrong, their logic and sense of duty seems destroyed.
The Way Lucifer uses Others to do his Dirty Work
Read my article dated May 14, 2011. Entitled: The Dynamics of Relationships” about Kate and William Prince of Wales. I speak about mistakes in this article and I remember talking about how one of William close friends told him to go get other women instead of been engaged so early to Kate. That was Lucifer using other people to mess up Williams life, no doubt about. Eventually, he realized something is wrong, and that he need to be with Kate the person who loves him and who he loves. Yes, Lucifer nearly won, but he didn’t.
Okay, so the person you are having problems with no longer have control over their emotions. Something else has taken over their soul and their spirit. The only way to deal with that is through the power of God. Pray and Pray, and Pray some more for them. Another clue to their behaviour is that you will find you talk to them and they don’t seem to hear you. They become a totally different person. It’s as if the person, you know before is not the same person anymore. It’s not that they are a bad person, it just means that they have been influenced in a bad way, and that is how Lucifer works.
Lucifer compels people to behave in “Unorthodox ways” and do things that they would otherwise not have done. It took me a long time to figure this out but through life one gains more and more experience as life goes on so that’s good. Just remember there is good and bad in this world we live in and most of us, don’t like to see or accept the truth about what is happening around us. “We must in life though–learn to keep an open mind it could save our lives.”
So, if someone around you is acting in ways that are unethical, their behaviour is unorthodox and appears quite unusual to how they would have otherwise behaved before, then you need to pay attention. Realize that God is calling out to you to get closer to him, to pray not only for yourself but for the person around you who is acting in an “Unorthodox, or Unconventional Way.”
(The picture below—a depiction of Jesus) Okay, Lucifer doesn’t believe in doing the 
right thing, he doesn’t believe in compromises or making exceptions. Lucifer believes in all bad things. So, here are some signs to look out for if someone around you have most of these characteristics then you have found your problem. If Lucifer is working in this person life he will let them have these emotions in them. Emotions that is filled with just deep anger, hate, resentment and jealousy, and they don’t like to follow Traditional Family Values—they want to do the Unconventional. When I say (He) He refers to either a man or woman who is causing problems for you.
Signs of Lucifer In Other People
(These clues are subtle clues and that is why Lucifer have been getting away with this for over 2000 years, creating alot of havoc in people lives on earth.)
1. He is always full of anger, hate, jealousy, lack of respect. He will cause you to make big mistakes by making you nervous and anxious. Mistakes you would not otherwise have made. His method is if he can cause you to make mistakes that ruin something important for you then he’s gained. The minute you make your mistake, Lucifer walks right in and sits down and refuse to move. He refuses to move because he wants to ruin your happiness. He wants to keep you held up like a prisoner so that you will move on from what you want especially when it comes to relationships because if you move on you will end up having a relationship with the wrong person, hence major unhappiness.(What I should say is he uses the other person and they create the roadblocks for him) Then he goes to work to destroy your most cherished plans. He uses the people closest to you to destroy your dearest plans. Any plan that is dear to you. Especially relationships. (It took me years to figure out how Lucifer works but I know now and trust me, with knowledge we can all go on to lead better lives.)
2. They have no shame, and so they try to cause you shame.
3. They want you to bow to their rules and for you to comply to their wishes. You must not be happy, only them whether it hurts you or not, they don’t care.
4. He never stops arguing. Arguments become his drug. They argue morning, noon and night 24/7. They live by the sword (Their Mouth) everyday. Why? Just so they can intimidate you and force you to comply to their wishes, which ultimately ruin your plans. They don’t care if you lose something precious or not or if you become unhappy. Nope! They don’t care at all.
5. The more he argues the more it fuels him it’s like a drug.
6. He doesn’t want you to be happy. Only if he gets what he wants.
7. He must be happy not you. This person tends to be “Passive Aggressive.” They will aggravate you and when you get mad at them they make it look like it’s your fault, which gets you even more upset, but that is what they want. So, then you look like the bad guy.
8. He will run over everyone—family, friends, neighbours everyone to get what he wants.
9. He will always put up “Major Oppostion” and try to derail your plans for a long time, just so he can stop your plans from moving forward. He exudes hate not love.
10. He will manipulate you, tell lies and fabricate stories. He will let others distrust you and make you look bad, in turn other people will like him and take his side. He always knows how to argue a good point, he always tries to win at every argument.
11. The worst thing is this person will always have lots of friends because they act differently outside of the family. People who don’t know them will think they are a nice person when in fact they are not. What I like to tell people is that–Not because someone have a big voice doesn’t mean their a bad person. My Grandfather had a big voice and his outside appearance says don’t mess with me. However, he was a very kind hearted man once you get to know him, he’s like a big Teddy Bear. So, not because someone has a big voice doesn’t mean they are a bad person. The people who act quiet and who are passive aggressive those are the people you need to look out for, they are the ones I don’t trust or like at all.
12. He is a master at manipulation and will cause even your own family to turn against you. Remember his goal—“He doesn’t want you to be happy.” If you had a family that was a happy family but then someone in the family starts acting in unusual ways, example, defying your authority, not wanting to do the right thing, or they betrayed you in such a way that causes you alot of sadness and disappointment, wanting to break “Traditional Values” that’s Lucifer right there.
13. Lucifer doesn’t believe in upholding “Traditional Values” he likes disorder and Diaspora. Anything that is “Unconventional, Unorthodox, Unjust and not right in the eyes of God or Jesus—He doesn’t uphold this. He will fight against this in a very extreme way. If someone around you is acting like this that is your clue right there.
14. Lucifer will cause so much opposition to your plans. If there has been opposition to your plans for months on end or even up to a year (1 year or more) where you have been getting a lot of opposition, setbacks and delays. This is Lucifer, no doubt about it.
15. He doesn’t believe that if someone doesn’t love him that it is okay to be in a relationship with them. He will always believe that if the person is not inlove with him it’s okay. He can live with that. The woman don’t need to like him—if we are dealing with a man. That is Lucifer right there staring you in the face. Lucifer don’t care if anyone loves him. He wants’ you to be unhappy he don’t care if a woman likes him or not. Now, God doesn’t work like that. God wants people who are truly inlove with each other to be together not the other way around, because God wants you to be completely happy and have a good life “Do you get what I am saying?”
16. He causes these Oppostion and delays like I say by using the people who are closest to us because they can do the most damage. He wants you to second guess yourself, loose confidence in the people you love, he will work to let you lose great relationships because he doesn’t want you to be happy. He will make you make major mistakes that you would otherwise have not made. What he wants for you to do is to say, “Oh, my it’s too hard the journey is too long, it’s too overwhelming I can’t take it anymore, I should just move on and give up.” “If we are talking about a relationship, yes, his goal is for you to move on and find someone else, someone who no doubt will make your life unhappy.” But that my dear, would be a even bigger mistake. Don’t let him stop you from living a happy life, don’t give up if you think you have found the right person for you.
Remember what I said earlier in order to defeat Lucifer, you need to pray and pray like you mean it. If there is someone you love and you care for pray for them. If you want a better life for yourself and want to be happy, Pray. That is the only way to overcome him. The person who is giving you trouble pray for them and do it everyday. Ask God and Angels to come and take away anything negative that is causing this person to act in a way that you know is wrong. Whether in the morning or afternoon, but pray for them.
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Find the Person who doesn’t want you to be happy and you have found Lucifer.
Now you will be asking, “If my partner, my friend, my relative, my co-workers say something bad to me does it mean it’s Lucifer causing problems. No, I am not saying that. Use your common sense. I am talking about when people deliberately betray us to the point where they cause us a great deal of unhappiness. They stand in our way for months, they try to ruin your most cherished plans. They put you in danger or someone you love in danger. They make you cause big mistakes in life and then they try to profit off your mistakes to the point where it causes you a great deal of pain and sadness. Someone who’s mission and duty in life is to stop you from been happy. Those are the kinds of things I am talking about. You know your own life look at it and see.
Lucifer will use all those tactics I mentioned above and more in the people closest to you, to destroy your dreams, wishes and desires. Especially when it comes to relationship. 
Think about it. “If you end up with people who are not your type then your relationship would deteriorate right?” This in essence will cause you a great deal of unhappiness, sadness and pain. But if you have found the right person to be with and you were going to be happy with them who would want to stop you?” Yes, Lucifer. Remember God and Jesus wants us to be happy, but Lucifer wants to make us unhappy. The clue is right there under your nose: “Find the person who doesn’t want you to be happy and you have found Lucifer.” Many people don’t realize he’s in their lives because they aren’t looking for him. Especially because we live such busy lives nowadays and of course this is the 21st century. We have our work, our children, the internet, television, the cottage and the boat to look after, the new house to move into, the vacation to take, the home renovation project, the friends to party with on the weekend at the hottest nightclub in town, countless things to distract us. Technology, including the Blackberry, the IPod, the Kindel you name it, and a busy Lifestyle moves us away from our spirituality and that makes Lucifer happy.
Usually we just blame everything on the persons behaviour when they act weird, but that is why Lucifer gets away with causing so many problems in our lives. Think about it, if you have been experiencing major setbacks and delays in your life you think it’s just the persons behaviour alone that is causing the problem? No, if it was just their behaviour the problem would have been solved say within a 1 month or two. Anything longer than that is Lucifer. I know it hurts to see the truth because often times the people who end up hurting us sometimes are the people who are closest to us. “That is why Lucifer can do his most damage. He uses people who have a weak spirit.” Doesn’t mean they are bad people it just means their spirit is weak. People always ask for the truth but often times they don’t want to hear the truth or see the truth.
Remember the movie: “ A Few Good Men” with Tom Cruise, 
Jack Nicholson and Demi Moore, I love this movie. Here’s the famous line from the movie.
Jessep (Jack Nicholson): You want answers?
Kaffee (Tom Cruise): I think I’m entitled to them.
Jessep: You want answers?
Kaffee: I want the truth!
Jessep (Jack Nicholson shouted): You can’t handle the truth!
So, many times people want us to speak in truthful ways but the questions is, “Can you handle the truth?”
The Good News In All This For You
Do you want to know what the good news is in all of this? The good news is, “your the one affected by all this right?” Your the one going through all the delays, the setbacks, the opposition, the strife, the conflict, etc,etc. The Good news is, “You are the one with a Strong, Strong Spirit and a Clean Spirit.” Lucifer knows he can’t touch you, that is why he used someone else to get at you and do his dirty job—He uses someone who has a weak spirit—It doesn’t mean they are a bad person, “It just means they have a weak spirit and that is why Lucifer could influence them in such a strong way. “Do you see what I mean?” Your spirit is strong, very strong he can’t hurt you, he can’t influence you in a bad way and get you to follow him, so he uses other people to hurt you and to put roadblocks in your way. So, take that as fuel for your life and use this to boost your self-confidence. See, that is why I say, I don’t fear Lucifer he can’t hurt me, so he uses other people to cause problems for me and cause delays and whatever else to happen in my life too, including other people around the world everyday.
You don’t want to go into relationships with people who have a “weak spirit” they will cause alot of trouble and unhappiness in your life. So avoid them at all cost if you can. This is what I am leaving behind in my past marriage. I got married quite young at the age of 22 yrs.old. What would a young woman at 22 yrs.old know about life in general or about people with weak spirit? Nothing. This person caused me alot of pain, sorrow and unhappiness in my life over the course of the marriage. God is giving me a second chance at life, an opportunity to start a new chapter and make a fresh start, I know God has been helping me, no doubt about it and I am Not going to make the same mistake twice.
I don’t ever, ever want to go into a relationship with anyone like this again, because these people with a “weak spirit” will cause too much unhappiness and pain in your life. I don’t need that in my life anymore, Period. They say you learn from your experience and I have learnt, painfully but I have learnt and I am not going to repeat it. People with a “weak spirit” need to work on themselves before going into any relationship period, especially marriage which is more long-term.
Getting married before they do work on themselves will cause their marriage to fail and the woman they choose to live with will experience nothing but pain and suffering. The woman will have alot of problems to deal with. Working on themselves is not something you do in a month or several months, this they need to do long-term throughout their life and they will need to find someone who can put up with their nonsense. I won’t put with that kind of person ever again in my life—Ever! I am not walking down that road again, thank you very much. “I love myself too much and God loves me and wants me to be happy and have a good life.” I am speaking from experience so, you can choose to take my advice or not it will be up to you.
It’s time to do some Housecleaning:
—“Spiritual Housecleaning.” Start by Praying your favourite prayers and pray for the person who is causing you problems. If you can’t or don’t want to pray in your house for whatever reason, drive to a quiet spot and pray, you can pray anywhere God still hears us. If you are Catholic say your favourite Catholic prayers. Trust me when I say, don’t fear Lucifer he can’t harm you, he’s not human like us that’s why he uses humans to do his work. Never fear him, remember God and his Angels are watching over you and helping you but he needs your help too. Personally, I don’t have any fear when it comes to Lucifer, when you have a good strong spirit and a clean heart about you he can’t do you any harm other than slow your plans down, and cause you many delays and setbacks— so have no fear.
Also if you feel comfortable you can ask your priest to say a Prayer for them or have them come to your home to say a prayer and bless your home. However, I believe if you say the prayer yourself it makes it more effective, but say it like you mean it, with a strong conviction. I have offered one below.
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Nicene Creed—A Catholic Prayer
We believe in one God, the Father, the Almighty
maker of heaven and earth, of all that is seen and
unseen.
We believe in one Lord, Jesus Christ, the only Son of God,
Eternally begotten of the Father,
God from God, Light from Light, true God from true God,
begotten, not made, one in Being with the Father.
For us men and for our salvation
he came down from heaven:
by the power of the Holy Spirit
he was born of the Virgin Mary, and became man.
For our sake he was crucified under Pontius Pilate;
he suffered, died, and was buried.
On the third day he rose again in fulfillment of the Scriptures;
he ascended into heaven and is seated at the right hand of the Father. He will come again in glory to judge the living and the dead, and his kingdom will have no end.
We believe in the Holy Spirit, the Lord, the giver of life,
who proceeds from the Father and the Son, With the Father and the Son he is worshiped and glorified.
He has spoken through the Prophets.
We believe in one holy catholic and apostolic Church.
We acknowledge on baptism for the the forgiveness of sins.
We look for the resurrection of the dead, and the life of the world to come.
*The only way to deal with Lucifer is to confront him directly. 
Well, of course you can’t see him right, he’s not human. I mean confront him when you pray by saying, “I am no longer blind I can see that you have been causing problems in my life and for those I love.” It stops today. I no longer want you in my life or my home, and around my family- go in the name of God and in the name of Jesus”. Don’t worry too much about confronting the person Lucifer is using to cause problems in your life. Number one if you do, you will notice that they will not only vehemently deny it, they will make you look like you are not intelligent and that you are the one that needs help—not them.
They will try to make you look stupid in front of others. They will try to blame you for everything, they never take responsibility for their actions. Don’t worry about it. Typical behaviour. They will never admit to doing anything wrong. Lucifer never thinks he’s doing anything wrong, he thinks everything he does is right even when it’s causing other people alot of pain, he still will justify his behaviour which gets you mad and very frustrated because it’s as if his eyes are closed.
Guess what it is okay for you to be mad and for you to get upset about how Lucifer have affected your life. He is stealing precious time of your life, time you should be using to get on with your life. “Who wouldn’t be mad about that?” That’s a great start because now you realize you are not going to put up with this any longer, it’s time to end it, so fight back with Prayer. Remember your not the only person he’s affected he does this to millions of people everyday, but you are wiser now because you have cracked Lucifer’s Code unlike other people and this will allow you to live a better life. You can see things with clarity now—The blind folds are off.
Confronting the Person who is causing you Unhappiness
Also, If you decide to confront the person who Lucifer have been using to cause problems in your life—You need to have a bold talk with them “No more Playing Games, what is happening to your life is not a joke”. Why? You are dealing with Lucifer and you don’t want to harbour him anymore in your life the sooner this stops and the sooner he leaves your life the better. Tell this person directly to stop causing all this pain and unhappiness in your life. Tell them you will no longer tolerate their behaviour, and you want no part of it anymore, it must stop and it must stop today. You need to let them know that Lucifer is not only stealing their happiness but he has been using them without their permission. Tell them “God is not pleased with the way they have been behaving.”You will also find that even after you have been telling them for months to stop what they do they still continue to oppose you. That is Lucifer still opposing your plans. My message to you is believe me when I say, “Don’t give up.” Tell them to stop what they are doing and to move out of your way. Don’t tolerate this anymore. You don’t want to harbour Lucifer any longer in your life if you now realize he was the one causing all this trouble. You want to get rid of him as fast as you can— the sooner the better.
So, Lucifer is doing double duty, he is not only stealing your happiness by lengthy delays, opposition, strife and setbacks, but he is stealing the happiness of the person he uses to do his dirty job. When they should be out seeking their own happiness—Lucifer have them “Stuck on the Vine and your life in limbo waiting to move on with your life but you can’t because Lucifer is causing the person to refuse to move.”
Like I say, don’t ever fear Lucifer he can’t hurt you physically. The most damage he can do is to cause alot of “Opposition, Setbacks, Delays, Arguments, Strife and Frustration in your life.” By doing this Lucifer is hoping you will give up the fight and move on especially when it comes to relationships. He wants you to go into relationships with people that are not compatible or good for you. Most importantly, Lucifer can also cause you to lose great relationships. However, you can overcome him through nothing else other than prayer and tell him to leave your life alone, you don’t want him in your life, he’s not welcome. Tell him you love God, you love Jesus and you love the people who are dear to your heart and you want nothing else other than happiness in your life. Say your prayer for up to 2-4wks, if you need to do it longer, well do it.
I also recommend you read Joel Olsteen and Victoria Olsteen Message Entitled: “When You’re Tempted to Get Discouraged” Joel Osteen is a native Texan and the Pastor of Lakewood Church, which according to Church Growth Today is America’s largest and fastest growing church. I love Joel Olsteen because when he speaks about God he speaks from a Self-help perspective which is great and is similar to the way I offer my messages on my blog. He can also be seen on Television check your cable listing.
Joel says, on your way to victory, there always comes a time when you’re tempted to get discouraged and give up. You won’t feel this way when you first start out. It always happens when you’re tired or when you’ve been standing a long time, usually right before your breakthrough. That’s when you’re the most vulnerable.
The apostle Paul said in Galatians 6:9, "Don’t grow weary in doing what’s right for in due season you shall reap if you faint not." Two words are the key to this whole passage—faint not. In other words, if you don’t give up, if you stay determined to shake off the weariness, if you put on a new attitude knowing that God is still in control and dig your heels in saying, "I’ve come too far to stop now," you will see the promise come to pass. Instead of complaining about how long the battle is taking, we should be saying, "This too shall pass. I know it’s not permanent; it’s only temporary. I’m not camping here. I’m moving forward."
When we look in scripture at the story of the children of Israel and the Promised Land, we see that they were close to their victory. In fact, they were literally right next door to their Promised Land. God already said He would give it to them.
Continued…..Read the rest of the message here-click on the link: “Joel Olsteen Hope For Today”
Stormie Omartian Prayer of the Day
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When You Need to Forgive and Get Free of the Past
Lord, I want to always be open and clean before You in my heart. I want to confess everything I need to repent of so that I can receive Your full forgiveness. Show me if I am trying to hide anything from You or anyone else. Cleanse my heart of all unrighteousness so that I can live fully in Your presence and receive all the wholeness You have for me. I want to have the beautiful countenance of someone who is completely right before You.
I acknowledged my sin to You, and my iniquity I have not hidden. I said, “I will confess my transgressions to the Lord,” and You forgave the iniquity of my sin.
Psalm 32:5
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