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A very popular event, come experience the fall atmosphere in our historic downtown. Every great festival is built on great food, great events, and great fun! In Bowmanville, the fun begins with a pancake breakfast early morning not to mention the apple butter and apple cider available all day long. Enjoy the food while walking around the town and taking in the sights, craft markets, performances by local musicians and did we mention apple pies and candy apples. Our Boutique shops are also a favourite at this harvest time of year.
Picture courtesy of “Coastal Living Mag”For a streamlined look that doesn’t distract from the jaw-dropping view of the Bay of St. Jean, Barry chose simple, low-slung furnishings.
Love forced is always false love and yes, filled with hate, no respect and is not authentic or genuine.
It is 12:011 am and I am watching Eat Street on the Food Network. How boring is that? Oh, my gosh! I can’t flipping sleep. Well, I don’t feel like sleeping that’s what I should say. I need some mommy me time, yep! That is what I need, sometime for me to just relax, take a break, chill out, yep.
I am a happy mom my daughter won a trip to the Air Canada Centre to see Nelly Furtado and Joe Jonas and others. Out of the grade 7 & 8 class in her school only 13 kids made the list. I had to help her write a paragraph on leadership in schools it had to do with a global cause so we choose a topic I felt passionate about “Child Labour in Factories in India and China.” She won! Good for her. She was like “mom your so awesome,” I am like, “Okay, I will take that, I’ll take that.” We moms know that we don’t get called awesome alot at all. I don’t get called awesome alot around here too often, so I will take that, too funny, oh, my, gosh! Later I asked her I said, “can I get awesome in writing please?” Yeah, I am happy for her.
Today will leave me with just 7 weeks for me to leave this place I once called home. I have been really busy getting my new apartment move-in-ready after ending a 17 year marriage. I was lucky to find a nice little place in a residential neighbourhood, I didn’t want to put my kids in a high rise apartment. They have a backyard to play in so that’s good. I wanted to make my two kids as comfortable as possible. They both requested their favourite colours so, I have been painting and cleaning, like crazy. I have no life, no life, gosh! I can’t wait to move in and just breathe and catch my breath. What a journey, only God would have had the power to help me to get to this stage of my Journey. Thank you God, for everything.
Anyway, my topic this week is learning to know the difference between Love and Hate or between real authentic love and false love.
The Difference between Love and Hate
Demanding someone loves you shows that you have no self-confidence and shows immaturity. The love that is been offered is cold and void of true love and is not authentic or real love. It is forced love. When a man doesn’t take “No” for an answer, right away you know as a woman that they are “Controllers and Dictators.” These people tend to be “emotionally abusive,” and in many cases “physically abusive.” I want no one like this in my life, thank you very much, and don’t think I don’t know how to spot people like this, I do.
Ladies if a man is forcing or demanding you love him this man will turn out to be an abusive man to be with in a relationship. If a man is disrespecting your rights as a human being as a woman and cannot respect the fact that you don’t love him or will ever love him, then that man is definately not the kind of man you want in your life. A man who “forces himself on a woman have no respect for himself or you.” If he has no respect for himself it means the person is incapable of loving the woman or themselves. This is a “Huge Red Flag” and warning sign for a woman. Anytime a man is forcing you to love him “he doesn’t have your best interest at heart, he doesn’t care for you, about your feelings and he doesn’t value you as a woman.” Harsh, but true. Yes, they say the truth hurts, but it will also set you free.
The man usually have a hidden agenda. He is driven by “Lust not love.” People need to know the difference. Love is calm, respectful, kind, appreciative, warm, generous, forgiving, compassionate and offers the person the freedom to be themselves without restrictions and true love radiates light and happiness for those whom the person cares for. On the other hand, lust is driven by force, intimidation, ruthlessness, lack of respect, short-term gain. Basically, lust is like “Empty Calories.” Once the thrill of the chase is over and the person has achieved their objective in fulfilling their desire then “their interests dies.” Lust is empty and is always void of true love. It is fueled by hate, and lack of respect to the woman.
When a man is demanding a woman loves him it means he “Lacks self-confidence as a man.” Men who continuously demands that a woman loves them are lazy partners to be with in a relationship. Yes, they are the kind of men who are lazy in relationships they want the women to do all the work, they are also the kind of men that don’t want to do the work in trying to find a partner for themselves. So, instead they harass the woman, become a stalker or try to intimidate the women into loving them.
I am a strong, independent woman and no man, yes, no man like this will ever be welcomed into my life. If I didn’t love you at first sight it means I don’t love you or I am not inlove with you. If I say, “I don’t love you.” Don’t try to force me to love you, it will never work. For me that’s a huge red flag. Women, any man that say something to the effect of “ I will make you love me,” Is a “Controller, Dictator and Abuser and doesn’t respect your rights has a woman.” You can’t force anyone to love you it will only lead to disaster.
Self-esteem is a huge issue with men like these. Men who are confident in themselves don’t demand women love them and don’t act like a 2 year old child. A confident man knows if a woman says “no, I am not inlove with you,” they may feel disappointed BUT they know life is for living and if it didn’t work out with a particular woman then it was not meant to be and that the universe will very soon have someone lined up for them around the corner. They know they just have to be patient.
When a confident man believes in himself he acts accordingly. He knows without a doubt that the right person for him will materialize very soon. A man without confidence in himself though, will “persecute a woman, insult her, demand she loves him and make her life a living hell,” just like that guy portrayed in the Dr.Phil video. Just because the woman doesn’t love him back, he’s now going to insult her and make her feel horribly and unhappy. Men like these need to work on themselves, seriously work on themselves and grow up and stop acting like children.
Which woman out there wants men like these? Not me, I don’t. Men like these have too many issues to deal with, and they seriously need to go work on themselves first before getting into any relationship—especially if they plan on committing to marriage. Their job has nothing to do with their personal well-being. A man might have a successful job or business but when it comes to relationships they fail in the love department because they lack self-esteem and confidence. There are deep rooted issues that these men need to resolve before going into a committed long-term relationship, such as marriage.
I have two children, as a mom I will babysit my children but having learnt from past life experiences, I refuse going forward in my new life to babysit a grown man. The man I see in my minds eye must be confident, self-assured and value me as a person and who is willing to fight for my honor, and respect me as a person. A man who don’t expect perfection because he knows that he himself is not perfect and that we all make mistakes in life. It is how we rise above our mistakes and trials that makes us who we are—that’s what makes us special and separates us from the people who feel they are perfect and it’s a crime if we make mistakes in life. The man is confident in himself and doesn’t demand a woman loves him and have respect for women. I don’t need no “Controller or an Emotionally Abusive man in my life,” thank you very much, life is way too short for that. Plus, I love myself too much and I need to not only live my life in the right way but I have to set an example for my daughter and son to follow—as well, I want nothing less for myself. So, don’t force yourself on me and demand I love you, because it will not happen.
This Is For Women
If a man is demanding you love him or is forcing himself to be in a relationship with you. “It is a huge red flag and warning sign.” Why? Respect. The man clearly has no respect for you as a woman. Has the relationship progresses, the respect deteriorates, because he had no respect for you from the beginning. Yes, at first things are fine, he will pretend to give you full autonomy in making decisions when it comes to both of you. He will pretend and act like, “Oh, I give you the opportunity to be independent and for you to make whatever decisions you want, he will be like, “oh, honey it’s your choice you decide.” Don’t let that fool you. Men like these can’t keep up the “charade” for long. Remember, men who demands that a woman loves them are “Controllers.” They will never change. Eventually, like I say the respect deteriorates. They eventually become “Emotionally Abusive and sometimes Physically Abusive.” Men who are controllers also have a “Filthy Temper.” These men tend to lie alot too, they can never tell the truth about anything. (See the videos I offered from Dr.Phil this guy lies like crazy)
No matter how much they hide their lack of respect from the woman at the initial stage of the relationship. Eventually, their bad temper shows up. It’s not a matter of if they will show their temper—it’s a matter of when. Another thing with men who are “Controllers,” most of them are the “Betrayers.” They tend to keep the woman isolated from everyone and they are great manipulators. They use their lack of respect for the women to try and break down the woman’s self-confidence over time. Which eventually deteriorates the relationship. This now creates major conflict in the relationship. Then these same men use the conflict as an excuse to betray the woman. When they betray the woman they then turn around and blame the women for the betrayal. How sick is that? All manipulation. So, controlling men and manipulators goes hand in hand. Why? You can never please a controller. They will never be satisfied with anything you do for them, very selfish people, it’s always “Me, Me, Me.” Not us. It’s all about them and how they feel, what they want, how everybody must bow to them and comply to their wishes and do what they want. Huge Ego these men, Huge.
“Everyone must comply with their wishes or suffer the consequences or die—You either do what they want or they will beat you to a pulp and harass you or make your life a living hell not only for you as a woman but everyone around them must suffer the consequences. Give me what I want and make me happy or you will live to regret it.”
For Men
When a woman does not love you, is not inlove with you, or doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you, OR she didn’t express to you verbally that she wants to be in a relationship with you, don’t persecute the woman, insult her and belittle her and become a maniac if the woman doesn’t want to be with you—for crying out loud grow up and be a man about it!
Not only will it end in disaster, but the woman will feel nothing but resentment for you, neither will she have any respect for you. Find someone who loves you back. The right person for you will show up eventually that far exceeds your expectation and matches your temperament and personality. Overall, don’t demand, dictate, or force a woman to love you. It will never materialize into anything. Especially marriage, something I have some experience with. If you are a man and you are forcing a woman to love you, especially if you are thinking of committing to marriage you are in essence:
“forcing the woman to lie to you, forcing her to lie to herself and her family, your family and friends that she loves you when she doesn’t. Especially if you are committing to marriage, basically you want the woman to lie before God, lie before her family and friends on her wedding day and say she loves you when she doesn’t.”
If a man wants a woman to lie to God about how she really feels inside then that man is not for her. I would tell my daughter not to enter any relationship with any man like this. That is one thing a man should never, ever try or attempt to try with me—they would be crossing the line of major disrespect to me as a woman of faith who believes in following God’s Spiritual laws, “Don’t ever ask me to lie to God—Never.” I respect God way too much and love and respect myself too much. Ever since God appeared to me as a small child, I have come to love and respect God and I keep God very close to me and so does God, if someone wants me to lie to God and myself about how I feel, I am sorry, I will choose God over them. I will not lie to God and say I love someone when I don’t love them especially if I were getting married to someone, “Why on earth would I lie to God in front of friends and family on such a special day, especially if I was getting married—about how I feel for someone?”
—I would never do that. My Grandmother Verona always say this when someone gets her upset or they are forcing her to do something she doesn’t want to do she always say, “ I will not sin myself for anyone.” I say the same thing too, “I will not commit a sin for anyone–Amen.”
Lord, I praise You and worship You above all things. You are Lord over my life, and I invite You to be Lord over my thoughts as well. I don’t want to have any ungodly, foolish, or futile thoughts in my mind at any time. I don’t want my thoughts to control my life unless they are thoughts of You and Your Word. Help me to make praise and worship an ongoing part of my life so that wrong thoughts never find a place to reside in my mind.
Although they knew God, they did not glorify Him as God, nor were thankful, but became futile in their thoughts, and their foolish hearts were darkened.
Romans 1:21
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Deepak Chopra is an expert in his field and yes, Deepak is right. Love is Louder. Love, true authentic love will always surpass hate or false love. That is what he is saying. Controllers are bullies. Why? Lack of self-esteem causes people to bully others into intimidation. Most people now in society also realizes nowadays that some bullies can become physically violent not only with strangers or families members but also with their own partner in a relationship. So, true what Deepak says.
The Overall message from these two videos from Dr.Phil’s show is that, men like these have way too big a ego and yes, they don’t respect women. They think women are beneath them, they expect a woman must love them, because they are successful in their careers and they earn a six figure income. Especially if the woman earns less than them or doesn’t have a successful career as them. These men always make the woman feel like they are doing the woman a favour. It’s like “I have lots of money, so you must love me, bow to me, if you don’t love me your life will never be fruitful, successful or happy.” Please give me a break!
“Listen a woman will date a guy who takes the bus or walk to work and earn less money if he’s a nice guy, and treats her with respect rather than date a guy who have a bad attitude or a man who lacks self-confidence in himself, always remember that.”
Like the guy in the video the girl rejects him and now he insults her by saying she must be fat. This man is immature, selfish, lacks respect for himself and women. Most importantly, the fact that he calls her fat immediately is a sounding alarm for me—“This guy in a relationship with any woman will be emotionally abusive to any woman he dates—It’s obvious he doesn’t respect the rights of women.” So, if the woman “lord forbids, puts on a little weight during the relationship he would insult her or dump her?” Calling the woman fat, and getting angry because she rejects him, is a huge red flag. Guys like these seriously need to work on themselves. They need to take sometime and work on their issues before dating anyone or think about getting married to anyone at all. These guys never see their own faults or shortcomings, yet they are always quick to point the finger at someone else and degrade a woman and try to crush her self-esteem because she doesn’t love them. Their Ego is way too big for themselves. They need to learn to be humble and respectful first, but first they need to respect and love themselves, otherwise they will never have a successful relationship with anyone. Look for men like these to always want people to do what is “Unethical, Unjust and Unfair to make them happy, they have no morals or values—None and yes, they don’t respect women.” If they did respect the woman they would say, “you know what, the woman is not interested I will move on and find someone else, not belittle, insult or harass the woman to eternity just because she is not interested in them.”
Brad Douglas Paisley is 38 years old and is an American singer-songwriter and musician. Paisley was the 2008 CMA and ACM Male Vocalist of the Year winner. He has stated that his love of country music stems from his maternal grandfather, Warren Jarvis, who gave Paisley his first guitar, a SearsDanelectroSilvertone. Brad is married to Actress Kimberly Williams with whom he has two sons. She is best known for her co-starring role on the ABC sitcom, According to Jim, as well as her breakthrough performance in the popular comedy film, Father of the Bride. She is 40 yrs.old
Postcard of Love and Light: “Bright Eyes”
I am a huge country music fan and I love this new song from Brad and Carrie….I dedicate this song to someone whom I love dearly, whom I miss everyday, no day goes by and they are not in my thoughts and prayers and who will always be in my heart, soul and spirit… “Bright Eyes”wherever you are this song goes out to you. Yes, like Carrie sings, “that look in your eyes that I miss so much.” Turn this up and enjoy. Yes, this song is awesome… can’t stop singing and playing it.
Jessica Danielle Andrews is 27 years old and lives in Huntingdon, Tennessee. She is an American country music singer. When she was seven, a bone was growing through her spinal cord, a condition that required surgery. She had a 50/50 chance of coming out of it paralyzed. Andrews learned her passion for singing in the fourth grade.
Picture courtesy of “Coastal Living Mag” before air-conditioning, coastal residents would often take advantage of the sea breeze with a sleeping porch. This antique iron bed and vintage-style bamboo furniture look beautiful on the screened porch.
In my last blog article I mentioned that I would let my blog readers try to draw their own interpretation of the Bible verses I offered. So, today I will continue from where I left off. Before I explain what the Bible verses mean for us, I would like to say that when God or Jesus said something in the Bible it was said in “Parables.”
According to Wikipedia, The word "parable" comes from the Greek word παραβολή (parabolē), meaning "comparison, illustration, analogy". It was the name given by Greek rhetoricians to any fictive illustration in the form of a brief narrative. Later it came to mean a fictitious narrative, generally referring to something that might naturally occur, by which spiritual and moral matters might be conveyed. A parable is a short tale that illustrates universal truth, one of the simplest of narratives. It sketches a setting, describes an action, and shows the results.
Reading the Bible
Okay, I know some of my blog readers will ask how do I know how to interpret Bible verses, “do I read the bible or study the Bible all the time?” The answer is—No. I live my life in a normal way. By that I mean, I don’t walk around with the Bible all day, neither do I read or study the Bible everyday, I watch television like most people, I read magazines and other books. I am a mom so I am always busy looking after my kids, I have a home-based business that was keeping me busy but now that I am in the process of moving the business is now in “sleep mode.” So, no I don’t read the Bible everyday, if I read the bible once a month that’s rare. Ever since God appeared to me when I was a small child, I have had this ability to interpret the bible, I can’t really explain it, it is just something I do naturally.
Anyway, lets start with the first one.
And he shall bring forth thy righteousness as the light, and thy judgement as the noonday. (Psalm 37:6)
What does this means? Well, where is the sun at during noonday? Isn’t the sun at it’s highest peak in the sky? If you answer yes, then you are right. It is the hottest and brightest at noonday. It shines ever so brightly and it makes everyone feels happy when the Sun is out—right? So, what God is saying to us, is that if we do all the right things in life, if we become righteous people then he will bring our Judgement as noonday. Who sits at the highest peak in the sky? God himself is at the highest point. So, he is saying to us, you can sit with me, you can come with me and be with me and your light shall shine ever so brightly due to your righteousness. You can be at the highest point with him if only you live “Righteously.” If you don’t live your life righteously then you will be at the lowest point where just like darkness comes at night the moon will be where your place will be if you don’t do the right things, or you do the unethical things in life.
Psalm 106:3 “Blessed are they who maintain justice, who constantly do what is right.”
This says, exactly what it means. Blessed are they who maintain justice all the time. If you live your life in the way God expects you to, and no we are not talking about wearing halos over our heads, and becoming holier than thou. What God means is, if we come to trust him, and accept that he is the Alpha and the Omega that he is the true creator of us humans and believe in his “Spiritual Laws,” which entails, Justice, Peace, Love and Mercy and we accept his laws and practice his laws then we will be blessed. There is nothing more simple than that.
Deuteronomy 16:20 “Follow justice and justice alone, so that you may live and possess the land the LORD your God is giving you.”
What is God is offering us? In this Bible verse God is offering us two things,“The kingdom of Heaven as well as, Eternal Life—because he said, so that you can live.” How do we get into Heaven? We don’t get into heaven because of all the worldly things we possess. Example, through the fame, wealth or any material things you may possess. No. We get our ticket to heaven if we “Follow justice and justice alone.” If you do things that are unethical all the time then God will not reward you by allowing you into heaven. So, he’s saying live your life in the right way and Heaven will be your reward.
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Proof of God
How many people reading this blog right now would believe me If I say that God appeared to me when I was a child? See, some people would give me the benefit of the doubt and others, would say, “I don’t believe her, why didn’t God appear to me? If he did what did he say to her?” Some people would think I am lying and that I am just making up stories. Why? For one thing I have no proof. Yes, I do wish I could bring my Grandmother back to life, I miss her so much everyday, because she never, ever doubted me, she was the only one in my life that would trust me and believe that what I say is true. Do you know what I find sad about society in general? People always want proof that God truly exist, but they never ask for proof that “Lucifer” exist. How sad is that? Due to this fact, ever since I was a small child I have had to endure “Spiritual Suffering.” Which is how God reaches out to us though for us to hear his “Spiritual calling and to follow him.”
In the bible God meant what he said when he said, “suffer little children to come unto me for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.”
Matthew 5:3 “Blessed are the poor in spirit for theirs is the Kingdom of heaven.”
What does this bible verse mean? God is talking here again about “Spiritual suffering and loneliness.” The minute we decide to follow God’s path look for people to reject us, just like Jesus was rejected thousand of years ago and eventually crucified. Look for people to call us crazy or weird and mock us or insult us just because we talk about the goodness of God. Look for people who were once our friends and close companions now turn against us and talk behind our backs and make us feel like we are not intelligent people just because we talk about God. We will feel lonely and will seek the shelters of our own church and in some cases they will turn their backs on us if we question certain things, or try to seek answers to things that perplex us. Some people will go as far as call us “Insane,” just because we talk about God. Isn’t that crazy? If we follow “Lucifer’s path and do all the bad things no one will call us crazy because we now quote and quote “fit into their world of sin.”
The minute someone of faith starts to talk about God we are marginalized by people in society. People call us crazy, weird they talk behind our backs or they completely reject us off their “Best Friend list.” We don’t get called on, if your friends are having a great party on the weekend they may not invite you because you are not quote an quote “cool anymore.” Then you realized you are in a separate place of your own, your journey towards God is now filled with “Spiritual Loneliness and suffering.”
Jesus said, "Congratulations to those who have been persecuted in their hearts: they are the ones who have truly come to know the Father.” (The Gospel of Saint Thomas)
Often times you will get comments like these if you talk about God “Your crazy or people look at you as if your weird, or they will ask, “are you okay, maybe your a little stressed” Oh, that one is good—or my favourite one is “Do you think your God?” My reply to them is, “No I am not God but I work for him I am one of his “Social Workers, I work in the department of Love, Peace and Justice.” Which department would you like?” If you need help with anger management and bad manners I can’t help you. Oh, my, gosh!” Too funny, oh, please. Listen, if you don’t have a sense of humour in life people will drive you crazy. You just have to take it like a grain of salt and just don’t worry about it, like water on a ducks back, just let their rude comments slide off.
People become hypocrites just because we embrace God they think we are weird. What about people who become prostitutes, people who work in the pornography industry, people who put garbage on television for us to watch everyday etc, etc, society embrace people like these everyday. Isn’t that sad that people do this?” God stands for Love, Peace, Justice, and happiness—and this makes us weird or crazy because we love God and Jesus and choose to follow that path? I don’t get it.
So, God is saying “Poor in Spirit,” to refer to us been “Severely Poor spiritually because people who have no faith and trust in the word of God will turn their backs on you and this will cause you, “spiritual suffering and loneliness.”
Personally, I have since I was a little girl endured “Spiritual Suffering and Loneliness,” all throughout my childhood and even into adulthood.” Ever since God appeared to me when I was 9 yrs. old, I have made many attempts to many people over the years to convince them that God really does truly exist even if you can’t see him he is there. Some people will accept that what I say is truthful and others will reject anything associated with the word God. I have chosen of my own “Free Will” and full accord to follow the path of God and Jesus because I understand full well that there is a God and that hell does exist and that I do not under any circumstances want to go to hell. If you are someone who have endured alot of pain and suffering in your life, well add 10,000 times that or more to your pain and that is what hell is like. Hell is not a pretty place people. I would rather endure:
“Spiritual suffering, loneliness, rejection and insults from people without faith in God knowing full well that at the end of the day, my reward will be with God in heaven.” Yep, and no money in the world will ever be able to buy you that ticket you have to work for it.
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What does God means when it comes to Spiritual Laws.
Let me ask my blog readers these important questions:
1. What if you had a daughter and she met a man who happens to be wealthy but you know from newspaper articles that he’s not a very faithful man. He’s had numerous affairs and scandal travels him wherever he goes. However, he’s wealthy and you are poor. You are at the brink of destruction so to speak and if your daughter were to marry him your life of poverty would disappear. What would you do? Would you let your daughter marry this man hoping that your daughter might be the lucky one and that he won’t commit infidelity with her?” Would you let your daughter marry this man knowing that you are just one step shy of living on the street? What would you do? This situation your in now requires you to make a “Moral Decision as well as a “Ethical Decision.”
Personally, I have a daughter and I would under no circumstances allow her to marry such a man. I don’t care how poor I am whether I am living in a “Shoebox or on the street” a term my Grandmother would use. I would clean houses, and find whatever job I can, I would do what ever it takes to get my life together but I would not use my daughter whom I love with all my heart and soul as a means of personal gain. It would be unethical for me as a mother to do that. Yes. It is true there are people out there that would do that, but not everyone would stoop so low.
2. What if you were in a situation where your Son or Daughter were about to get married but the person that they were to get married to does not love them and doesn’t want to be with them, and doesn’t even want to entertain the thoughts of getting married to your son or daughter. This person might have expressed this to you directly or indirectly through a source or third party. Would you let your son or daughter go ahead with the marriage knowing full well that in the end it would only cause both people including your son or daughter nothing but unhappiness, pain, suffering, emotional distress as well as, shame not only to them but to you as a parent . What would you do? Would you make the assumption that they will grow to love each other? Which I believe is one of the worst thing a parent could assume—There is no such thing as “growing to love a person after you commit to them in marriage, it’s either you loved them at the beginning at the get go, at the initial stage—or, you don’t.” It is just common sense and fair logic. Would you ignore the warning signs that the person that they want to get married to doesn’t love them? Would you ignore the fact that at some point in time these people who get married would be at each others throat everyday because they can’t stand each other? What would you do? This too now becomes a “Moral Decision as well as a “Ethical Decision.”
These two very important questions are all apart of the “Spiritual Laws of God.” This is what God meant when he spoke about “Righteousness and Justice.” What is the Moral thing to do, what is the Ethical thing to do? In our daily lives, we will have to make decisions based on “Right Judgement and Moral Reasoning.” God is saying to us that if we want to enter the “Kingdom of Heaven.” Then we need to act “Ethically and Morally.” We must do what is “Right, Just, Fair and Ethical in the eyes of God.” God is always watching us to see how we behave, he is offering us such a simple plan. Almost like when we buy “Life Insurance for ourselves or our family.” God is offering us is His Life Insurance plan free of charge. He is saying all you have to do to get your ticket to heaven and sit with him, and get “Eternal life, all you have to do is just do what is Morally correct and Ethical.” That is what he means when he says,
And he shall bring forth thy righteousness as the light, and thy judgement as the noonday. (Psalm 37:6)
This is exactly what he meant. No hidden agendas. Just straight and true to his word. Do this and your on your way to “Heavens Gate—your on your way to entering the Kingdom of Heaven.” Do the opposite of what he asks us to do and we will be headed over to “Lucifer’s side a place you don’t want to go people.”
God and Betrayal
If you feel you must betray someone because you feel angry about something or hurt over situation, let me tell you right now, that if you have to betray someone to get what you want, at whatever cost. This is a “Huge Red Flag.” A big warning sign, a sounding alarm that whatever you are trying to get or achieve will definately end in failure for you. I guarantee it. It will only result in unhappiness, pain, suffering, embarrassment not only for yourself but for everyone involved. So, don’t attempt to do this. It is wrongand it is unethical to betray anyone especially people of your own family or a partner in a relationship.
“Betrayal doesn’t have any value to it. It is worth zero, nothing. So, think about the price you will have to pay in the end for betraying anyone. The price you pay though would be very high.”
No matter how angry or hurt you are about a person or situation in your life, don’t betray anyone. The price you pay will be way too high and it is not worth it for you to do that. If you have a chance in your life today to “Redeem yourself,” before committing this ungodly act, then I would suggest you take the opportunity. Start living your life today in the right way, the way God wants’ you to live. If you refuse to follow God’s way then you are saying you have no respect for God, yourself or his “Spiritual Laws,” in that case then you are what God call a “Lawless Man or Person who have become an Apostate—meaning you have chosen to abandon your faith, respect, trust and conviction in God.”
When someone abandon their faith and conviction in God and become an Apostate, don’t let them fool you where they later then say, “I now love God and will follow his path.” Based on my experience if they didn’t love and respect God before and they then turn around and say, “well I love God now, most times it is fake—they are been fake.” They just say it because it’s a means to an end. Meaning they are saying they are into God because they are trying to please someone or impress someone for any kind of reason. No one can’t fool me when it comes to been faithful to God. I know what to look for in people and you can’t “Fake your Love of God with me.” Nope. I would say I have a great ability to spot people who pretend to love God. Most times they can’t keep up the “Charade too long.” You can only pretend for so long in life when it comes to your love for God and Jesus and then the real truth comes out in the end. If anyone around you abandon their faith and trust in God and Jesus then let me tell you that they have a long, long way to go when it comes to many things in their lives. Relationship is huge one. If you are planning on going into a relationship with someone who doesn’t have any trust or faith in God and Jesus then that marriage will have a “Short Shelf life.”
“You cannot build a strong relationship or marriage with anyone without the foundation of Trust and Faith in God and Jesus.”
When I say, I am all about doing what is “Right, Ethical, Just and Fair in the eyes of God,” I don’t say it because I am looking for friends or I am trying to impress anyone. I say it, because I mean what I say. This is how God would want me to live my life. People can mock me, alienate me, and say whatever they want about me. With all due respect, at the end of the day, God will reward me and I would have moved one step closer to God, one step closer to the kingdom of heaven. Yep, and no amount of money or fame in the world can buy you that ticket you have to work for it, by following God’s path and his “Spiritual Laws.”
If you are living your life and you don’t know “Right from Wrong,” or the difference between been “Ethical or Unethical,” Moral Reasoning and Right Judgement then you are someone who have lost all your “Value Systems and you need a serious wake-up call.” If people don’t do what is “Right in the Eyes of God when it comes to the right decisions in life the Ethical decisions in life it means you are on your way to losing your soul.” At that stage no one including God can’t help you, because you have chosen to follow the opposite path to him.
Thank You, Lord, that wherever I am locked up in my life, You have the keys to set me free. Whenever I am oppressed, You will bring justice. And whenever I have need, You will supply it. Without You, I am a prisoner of my needs and the consequences of my sin. I pray that You will deliver me from whatever keeps me from becoming all You made me to be.
Happy is he who has the God of Jacob for his help, whose hope is in the Lord his God, who made heaven and earth…who executes justice for the oppressed, who gives food to the hungry. The Lord gives freedom to the prisoners.
and taking in the sights, craft markets, performances by local musicians and did we mention apple pies and candy apples. Our Boutique shops are also a favourite at this harvest time of year. 
